Public Speaking

Gratitude without gushing

Wooden blocks spell out “THANK YOU.”

Lots of us like to include thanks in our speeches, but we’re not sure of how to tread the fine line between too little, which can sound offhand, and too much, which can come across as gushing.

The key to gratitude is sincerity.  Really mean what you say and include a smidgeon of specificity.  Try something like these:

To friends:

“I’ve loved being surrounded by laughter and good advice this year;  you are brilliant at both.”

“Thanks so much for being here for me in a year of ups and downs.  Who knew there was such a thing as a divorce party!?”

To colleagues:

“I’ve really appreciated your support this year, especially during the Prime Minister’s visit in July.  We gave her a five-star experience.”

“Thanks for making this such a lovely place to work.  I get out of my car, and I can already smell the coffee.”

To family:

“They say you can’t choose your family, but I’d choose you – especially when it comes to getting things down from high shelves.”

“You make me laugh and, sometimes, you make me roll my eyes, but I would rather roll my eyes with you than anyone else.”

To teams:

“Can you believe we revamped the school’s entire curriculum this year?  We rock!  I’m so glad you’re all part of my team.”

“They said ‘survive until 2025’ but we know how hard this year has been.  It’s been wonderful being part of a team full of determination in the face of challenges.”

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